As a mid-life dater, you have the advantage of knowing your limitations. When you dated the first time, you probably had to use a lot of trial and error to figure out what you liked (and were willing to tolerate). But now, you probably have particular preferences at this stage of life. Since you know this information you should use it to your advantage. For instance, if you hate cats, you probably don’t want to date someone who is obsessed with cats. Yes, they may be a nice person but your contempt for cats directly conflicts with their love of cats. Although it might not seem like a big deal in the beginning of the relationship, it could become a hindrance later on. It may be wise to avoid putting yourself into these situations when you have strong views about something.

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Know Your Limitations

Know Your Limitations