Explore In Your Comfort Zone

Have you ever noticed that many people find their mate through friends? Of course, one of the reasons is that people love to fix other people up.  But another reason is because people are usually comfortable around their friends.  This is one of the safest environments to find a mate.  

You should try to create a similar environment when you are mid-life dater.  Since you already have a life, you want to make sure that your mate will fit into your life.  One of the best places to look for people who share your interests is in organizations that you already belong to.  You should look at the members of community associations, organizations, or other groups that you participate in.